FS are not meant to treat anyone with a BMI over 35. It is a guideline put down by their professional association.

That said, some do (mine included) but they risk being censured for it.
wow.... I hadn't heard that..... my FS hasn't even mentioned it, apart from saying good job when I say I've lost weight.... he put me on clomid before I even talked about my weight with me....

I guess there is only a little obese and a LOT obese..... and my BMI is still under 40 ATM..... but still, he obviously didn't say it in a way that was sensitive and thoughtful

I agree with the others, go somewhere else..... but of course losing weight is always good - we just know it's not that easy!!!